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Are You Playing this Social Game?

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by: GabrielAngelo
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Date: Wed, 29 Dec 2010 Time: 10:49 PM

What is game? Game is a metaphor we used in the Seduction Community to desensitize or objectify what we experience out in social gathering so we won't take it personally. And I got to tell you, it can hurt. There will be nights when you will feel beaten up having gone out than if you had stayed in and wish that you haven't gone out. What is this emotion? It can be depression, dissatisfaction, disappointment, embarrassment, failure, etc.

But this is a process, and if you ever want take your game to the next level you have to got through those pains for they will be the learning experiences for you to take so you then can refine your social intuition and calibration. In fact, don't even focus on these negative emotions for they will drain you and cause you to have a less objective view on your social performance. Reframe your it in "what have I learned?"

So you are out in a club and you approach a girl, you get the girl talking, you two are dancing having a good time and laughing, and you say to yourself, "Already, I got this chick now!" and spend the entire night only with her, then out of nowhere she pulls away and acts like she doesn't know you. What happened? Instead of dwelling on the negative emotions of failure or dissatisfaction, what have you learned?

Perhaps you were too clinging and needy pushing her away and so will need to break off from her, or you were talking too much, or not contributing enough to the conversation. Whatever the reason, put your ego aside and reflect upon it to realize the bigger picture, which is to develop your skills in the long run instead of banging yoru head against the wall over one little loss; that is how the game can bebeaten.

About the Author

Gabriel Angelo runs http://www.socialnatural.com, with the unique approach to dating and meeting women, by focusing on developing your "social skills" to be the most socially savvy person you can be, not just with women...but everybody. Although the arts are primarily related to dating and attracting women, they can be applied to other aspects of your life from social, dating, personal, and even professional.

For more information, please visit http://www.socialnatural.com.


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